Hey, welcome!
I’m Bella. Mom, wife, social media analyst, and apparently a person who needs to write things down to stay sane.
If you’re also carrying more than you let on… well, same. You’re in the right place.
The basics
I’m based in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. By day I’m a social media analyst at an agency — which means yes, I’m sometimes still working at midnight, and yes, #IYKYK. By always, I’m a toddler mom to a 4-year-old girl whose current life goal is to be a princess. (And honestly? She’s already there.)
Why this blog exists
Because my mental load overflows. Because being a wife and a mom means the invisible list of things to remember lives in my head, rent-free, forever. I needed somewhere to put it.
This blog is my outlet for raw thoughts, half-formed opinions, the chaotic overlap of work brain and mom brain sharing one skull. I write so I don’t forget. I write so I don’t spiral. I write because some feelings just need to be said out loud, even if nobody asked.
What you’ll find here
MOTHERHOOD
The real stuff — tantrums, tenderness, and everything nobody warned you about.
ECZEMA JOURNEY
Living with eczema as a mom — the flares, the routines, the emotional weight of it.
CAREER & BALANCE
Agency life, working mom guilt, and the art of surviving both on the same day.
LIFE & MUSINGS
Opinions, moments, weekends in KL — the stuff my brain won’t stop thinking about.
Thanks for being here.
Whether you found this at 2am while the baby’s finally asleep, or during a 5-minute toilet break from your toddler — hi. I’m glad you’re here.
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